selfish selfies:

Every Friday we post a new video selfie about not having kids–created by you, our audience. We'll also be using some of these in the film. You can share your video selfie here!


Sean, from Zimbabwe, doesn't like the idea of being self-sacrificial. So he said no to kids.

Dann knew as a kid that he didn't want kids and now he has written a book about it!

Hey look, it's Mandi who helps run our social accounts! Team Selfish represent!

Tanya Williams of “A Childfree Happily Ever After says "I'm not anti-kids. I'm anti-kids for ME!"

It's so nice to hear about families that are supportive of our decisions!

"I'm gonna enjoy my life and I'm gonna have fun!" You go Amy!

We ❤️ hearing all sides of the "childfree" story. How many of you can relate to Bethany?

M. is grateful for your assumptions even though they're most likely incorrect.

How to cope with being a step-mom? Just blame it all on dad.

Vava learned at a very young age to not listen to her mother.

A cake decorating class goes south when a woman makes comments about Suzie’s childfree status.

Lucas got a vasectomy so his wife wouldn’t have to deal with side effects from her contraception.

Artist, musician, and podcaster JC can do whatever she wants with no time limit. Yay!

It's important for married teachers Nandita and Mike to be on the same page, about the environment and about having kids.

Christine is a great teacher and environmentalist, but when people find out she doesn't have kids, they assume she isn't!

Autism Advocate Kate Ross wants you to know that self-care isn’t selfish. Loud and clear for the folks in the back.

Given her busy life, Sakhile thinks it would be selfish for her to have children.

Lynn Hickernell didn't expect her move to Tennessee to come with a healthy dose of judgement.

Dr. Kimya Dennis studies childfree women of the African Diaspora and teaches at Salem College, 

Michelle Gotto wanted to be a mother till unsuccessful fertility treatments let her to an important realization. 

Emily Gonzalez really hated getting dolls as a little girl. She wanted to play Nintendo with her brother. 

Melanie Holmes wrote a book for her daughter to help her understand she had choices on how to live her life. 

Rasheda Williams is looking for sisterhood, and friends who won't throw judgement and stigma at her. 

Rhonny Dam worries about the impact of out-of-control populations growth on the planet. 

Trailers & Teasers

Official Trailer (3:03) 

"Selfish" Teaser (0:37)

"Incendiary" Teaser (0:38)


A series on parenthood, shot in brooklyn, created by Trixie Films interns Becky Jewell and Adrien Lesser. 

"What do you think about women who choose not to have children?"

"Why do you want children?"

"How would your life be different if you didn't have children?"