selfish selfies:

An ongoing series of video selfies about not having kids–shared by you, our audience. We'll be using some of these in the film. You can share your video selfie here!

A cake decorating class goes south when a woman has thought about Suzie’s childfree status.

Lucas got a vasectomy so his wife wouldn’t have to deal with side effects from her contraception.

Artist, musician, and podcaster JC can do whatever she wants with no time limit. Yay!

It's important for married teachers Nandita and Mike to be on the same page, about the environment and about having kids.

Christine is a great teacher and environmentalist, but when people find out she doesn't have kids, they assume she isn't!

Autism Advocate Kate Ross wants you to know that self-care isn’t selfish. Loud and clear for the folks in the back.

Given her busy life, Sakhile thinks it would be selfish for her to have children.

Lynn Hickernell didn't expect her move to Tennessee to come with a healthy dose of judgement.

Dr. Kimya Dennis studies childfree women of the African Diaspora and teaches at Salem College, 

Michelle Gotto wanted to be a mother till unsuccessful fertility treatments let her to an important realization. 

Emily Gonzalez really hated getting dolls as a little girl. She wanted to play Nintendo with her brother. 

Melanie Holmes wrote a book for her daughter to help her understand she had choices on how to live her life. 

Rasheda Williams is looking for sisterhood, and friends who won't throw judgement and stigma at her. 

Rhonny Dam worries about the impact of out-of-control populations growth on the planet. 

Trailers & Teasers

Official Trailer (3:03) 

"Selfish" Teaser (0:37)

"Incendiary" Teaser (0:38)


A series on parenthood, shot in brooklyn, created by Trixie Films interns Becky Jewell and Adrien Lesser. 

"What do you think about women who choose not to have children?"

"Why do you want children?"

"How would your life be different if you didn't have children?"